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278 days ago

Tall Poppy Syndrome: A Cultural Phenomenon of Cutting Down Success

Kiran Reddy from Mount Eden

Tall Poppy Syndrome (TPS) is a pervasive social phenomenon where individuals excelling in their field are criticized, resented, or undermined. It breeds a toxic culture of mediocrity, suppressing ambition and discouraging success. Driven by jealousy, insecurity, and cultural conformity, TPS cripples confidence, deterring high achievers from reaching their full potential.

Victims experience isolation, anxiety, and self-doubt, fostering imposter syndrome. This silent epidemic stifles innovation, weakens leadership, and harms mental health. Overcoming TPS requires celebrating achievements, fostering supportive environments, and reshaping societal attitudes. Breaking free from this mindset unlocks progress, empowering individuals to rise beyond unwarranted criticism.

More messages from your neighbours
3 hours ago

Poll: Is it ok to regift something that you have been given?

The Team from Neighbourly.co.nz

🎁 Holiday Gift Chat!

Do you ever regift?
What’s your take on asking for a receipt if a gift doesn’t fit?

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Is it ok to regift something that you have been given?
  • 60% Yes! It's better to regift what I don't need
    60% Complete
  • 40% No. It's the thought and effort that matters
    40% Complete
10 votes
5 days ago

Neighbourhood Challenge: Who Can Crack This One? ⛓️‍💥❔

The Riddler from The Neighbourly Riddler

What has a head but no brain?

Do you think you know the answer? Simply 'Like' this post if you know the answer and the big reveal will be posted in the comments at 2pm on the day!

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28 days ago

Some Choice News!

Kia pai from Sharing the Good Stuff

Many New Zealand gardens aren’t seeing as many monarch butterflies fluttering around their swan plants and flower beds these days — the hungry Asian paper wasp has been taking its toll.

Thanks to people like Alan Baldick, who’s made it his mission to protect the monarch, his neighbours still get to enjoy these beautiful butterflies in their own backyards.

Thinking about planting something to invite more butterflies, bees, and birds into your garden?

Thanks for your mahi, Alan! We hope this brings a smile!

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