42 days ago

How a Titirangi cafe owner gave a homeless man a second chance

Wendy from The Base Licensed Cafe

The touching article below was published recently by AMI insurance about an employee of the Base Cafe, Matty Harris. I just wanted to provide an update that Matty is going from strength to strength and is even training for chef duties. He manned the barbecue for a large number of orders on Saturday and everything was cooked to perfection!

The article:
Tom Reilly took a chance on a local homeless man, Matty Harris, and gave him a job in his cafe and art space in Titirangi. As a result, Matty has found a sense of purpose and rediscovered his passion for art.

Tom

"I met Matty when he was living under the run of shops in Titirangi. There’s a village vibe here and everyone gets to know everyone. I was impressed that Matty was trying to better himself by getting out of the gang he’d been in. I felt he’d been on quite a heroic journey and he always seemed like a switched-on kind of guy.
When I told him I was opening a cafe he offered to help out with the initial cleaning of the space and the renovation. Once we got the doors open, we needed staff and Matty was one of the first I offered a job to. He works front of house, waiting tables, washing dishes and helping out with admin. It didn’t matter to me that he was homeless. I prioritised character over experience.
There was quite a lot of manual labour involved in the initial stages and we had a limited budget, so it spoke volumes that Matty had volunteered his time for free. During the renovation, he revealed his massive artistic talents, and we’re lucky to have some of his work adorning our walls.
I think it’s really important to prioritise community and a sense of whānau tātou, so it made sense to include some of the locals in our operation. Our philosophy is that we’re only as strong as our weakest link so we try to make sure that everybody’s okay, and I think Matty enjoys that sense of family.
I’m hoping that kindness is making a comeback. The Black Eyed Peas and Snoop Dogg have got a new song called “Be Nice”. Our Prime Minister speaks about kindness a lot. I think people are beginning to realise that kindness is what we’re looking for from a very young age. We might go seeking status or security but what we really need is emotional generosity in our familial connections.
During his time with us, Matty, who is quite a shy person, has come out of his shell and revealed some of his many talents. It’s working out really well for us, and I hope that, in time, the job will allow him to get into some sort of accommodation."

Matty

"When Tom told me he was opening a cafe, he sounded like a crazy man with a dream – but I said straight away I’d help out. Tom has always shown kindness to Titirangi’s homeless community. He would visit us where we live under the shops, where the cafe is, and often he’d bring food or just cigarettes and a friendly face. I’d been trying to get out of a gang. I was worried that there might be some kind of payback if I left, but eventually I got to the point where I was able to hand the patch back.
My life has changed dramatically since I became involved in the cafe. I feel like I’m a part of something really good and I have a sense of purpose now. There’s a routine to my days and my weekends are taken up because I’m employed instead of drifting around like I was. It’s gone from negative to positive in a really big way.
At the moment, I’m really focused on helping to make the place a success. When you’re homeless, you can fall into a rut and forget your passions. For me, that’s art and music. It was so great to be allowed to paint on the walls of the cafe, and locals gave me paint and canvases so I could start doing works to sell. The art curator here has been like a mentor to me.
The music’s coming back into my life a bit, too. Years ago, I did some recording and maybe I’ll get back to that. I feel I can be myself more than before, and I feel kind of supported by the people around me.
I’m not worrying about what’s going to happen next all the time. Tom has taken me as I am and given me opportunities that no-one else would. It would be good if kindness like that was contagious."

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Sue from New Lynn

I am going to talk about a matter that I posted on Neighbourly some years ago but this time I will hold back on referring to the skin colour of the people involved.

Earlier today I went to the local liqour outlet for a bottle of wine.

Whilst there a ute turned up and parked at a funny angle in the Disabled Parking area.

Another member of the public was angry at this and accosted the people who had popped into the local liqour for booze.

What the offending people did was pure ignorance and nastiness. They started yelling that we were racist and wouldn't pick on anyone of a different skin colour.

I had gone to the defense of the member of the public and said to the people "Actually he is right and you are wrong. You should not park in the disabled parking area". I spoke quietly and calmly.

They turned on me and the woman became all aggresive. I ended up shaking and I said that I am in my late 50s and could have needed that parking area due to a disability. They did not have a disabled parking sticker and their behaviour showed to me how lazy they were when it came to respecting others eg the disabled.

They carried on yelling the F word frequently to the point where I thought the F word is probably the ONLY word they can speak because they think it sounds all smart and intelligent.

I cannot stand hearing anyone use the F Word because it shows a low intelligence and a lack of proper vocabulary.

Fortunately when it looked like the aggressive woman who claimed we were being racist seemed to be looking like she would attack me one of the local homeless guys came along and told the people to "F off". He has known me a long time as I am always friendly towards him and give him food and sometimes money.

I told him that all that, what happened, had me shaking all over.

Out of all this there is one thing that really angers me and it's the incredible laziness of so many able-bodied people that park in the disabled parking areas. But when a person or persons react aggressively because they are in the wrong by abusing and calling others racist then that really does bother me.

I just remembered one more 'gesture' the woman who became very aggressive did and that was she went up to the guy complaining and presented a finger that one can assume is the Up Yours gesture.

 And so all that i.e the frequency of the F word(please be aware I do use that word myself but it's 99% directed at the traffic congestion of Auckland)and her hand gestures shows to me the lack of intelligence of the offender and her colleagues(all of whom were also behaving irrationally aggressively perhaps because they knew they were in the wrong but wanted to be right).

A disabled person must be able to park in a disabled parking area with the relevant sticker appearing on the windscreen area. Not have to contend with lazy able bodied people who think they are more worthy of the spot than a disabled person.

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