The Ultimate Father's Day Gift
Here’s to all the dads out there — I hope you had a great Father’s Day!
My sons got me a couple of great books and chocolates – both favourites of mine. Thanks guys.
But it’s a bit of a cliché to get your dad a mug . . . or a keyring . . . or a block of chocolate . . . or a tie.
I’d like to share with you a Father’s Day tradition I had with my dad – one that I treasure now he’s gone. And I promise it’ll be as precious to you, even beyond your dad’s lifetime. What’s more, you won’t have to spend a single dollar!
Let me explain.
In May my father passed away. He had a great innings – 92 overs (years).
Several years ago, Peter asked me to write his eulogy – he actually wanted me to help him capture his life’s story. Yes, it became his eulogy. But that wasn’t its real value.
We put dad’s story together with a few photos and for $10 published it into a little book on snapfish.com. Then I realised… this story was Peter’s legacy!
It wasn’t for him or us (his sons). It was for his grand-children, great grand-children and generations beyond.
So, if you’re lucky enough to have your father still with you, here’s how you can give him the ultimate Father’s Day gift. Go and see him, get out your phone, and press the record button.
Ask your dad questions – about him and his life, e.g:
1. How did you meet Mum?
2. When did you realise you wanted to be with her?
3. What does being a dad mean to you?
4. What do you remember about your childhood?
5. What was the happiest time of your life?
6. And the saddest?
7. What are you most proud of?
8. What are your best qualities?
9. What advice can you share about life, love, money?
10. How would you like to be remembered?
Yes, there will be heaps more . . .
This is NOT for social media. It’s for you and your family. One day, it’s may be all you’ll have left of him. And you’ll treasure it.
Happy Father’s Day Dad!
- Malcolm Cox, Cox Partners Estate Agents
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